Waiting for an invitation

I was watching a repeat of FRIENDS , in this episode , Monica and Chandler meet a couple on a holiday. On rerun ,they try make contact with the intention of continuing the friendship, in return Monika and Chandler get to hear about her loudness and his repeat jokes.

We all make friends as we go along , some remain for many miles some drop off at the next stop. At the start we make calls to each other and try to find common subject of interest to continue the relation ship. Some of these efforts goes long way or it stops after few calls or visits. At this point confusion starts why this has happened and may be some soul searching do take place but the result is same .....long silence.

And then .If conversation begin with
" didn't hear from you for long time"
"I was very busy" ,
if one get to hear this then the relationship is coming to the rest and may blossom like a weed in the garden.

On the other hand some friend remains friends even after arguments and exchange sarcastic remarks and leave with the promise to call again. Why?

Could not find the answer to this but it happens and sure that it will continue to happen.

So far many of us have invested in lot of calls , Hi and Hellos , why ? do not know......

Now ! many of us wait for an invitation ..... so give a devil it's share but it's worth remembering a say about dog's tail.